What is an extraordinary moment? Am I looking for really extraordinary dates or romantic moments - those ones I see on TV or the big screen? Do I really want a very special moment for a first date? These things that I have mentioned are possible in real life. The question though is if I am successful finding my man or soulmate will these moments happen through the life of our relationship?
So how about meeting my first date and passing by the local pizza shop. After which, we proceed to a nearby beach and talk anything ordinary? Is the ordinary also extraordinary?
I am not pretty much hang up with big ideas about meeting someone on a first date. I want to know the other person for who and what he is so I would be able to say "yes" to his good, bad and ugly.
The issues confronting dating is that each party feels that he is going for a job interview and this is something that I don't choose to. A person has his on good points and bad points, no exceptions. Are we dreaming if we only wish for good points. Ordinary moments can be extraordinary when each party can be themselves - so fancy dinners and it could just be an hour of chatting in a cafe, a walk in the beach. It is these moments that I would truly love.
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