Should I Smell Where My Man Is?

What are the chances again for meeting my man, my soulmate after my recent disappointments. Where should I go? Should I still continue pursuing through gay chat lines? Should I go to noisy clubs? Or should I smell my way to him?

On the side light, Cool Water has been my favorite Men's Fragrance. I had the hunch that the man I was trying to pursue on the internet, is a guy who is sensual by scent. I have other Men's fragrance, but I said to myself: I think I am going to wear this when I first meet him. I am not sure now if this is going to happen and if I have to reserve this for another occasion.

It is hard to start all over again unfortunately. I wish that there is a place where I could meet my man in not the most common places or cyber places where gays go. I know of stories where a guy met his wife for the first time when the guy was trying to help an old lady cross the street. It was that moment the girl, now his wife, saw the him for who he is and not for what he looks like.

What are relationships made of? How do you start one and where you do you meet the partner in your relationship? Does one use all the senses? Should I close my eyes and start smelling?